Pretty Disconcerted

Pretty Disconcerted

Sunday, September 4th, 2011

The term “pretty disconcerted” in this context applies to consensual sexual activity that evolves around degrading the submissive

**Provoke ’em Blush, Provoke ’em Squirm**

The term “degradation” causes confusion within the S&M community, although many of us indulge in this specific provoke of role-play, from light stripping and embarrassment to serious humiliation.

Why do some people get off on being degrated? What are the distinctions between dishonor as embarrassment, and degradation as disconcerted?

What are the potential psychological ramifications? What’s different for a one-time scene vs. playing with your life partner?

At a workshop at the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar the concept of sexual degrated was debated at a workshop that was largely discussion based, and explored this particular area of BDSM. Is this a style of play you’ve struggled to understand? Or have you ever secretly craved to be put on the spot or shown how really rebelious you are?